5 Ways Parents Can Support Their Child in School Sports
Sports and activities have always been an important part of every child’s development. It is where I personally learned the lessons of how and when to follow and lead, work with others as a team, and maintain self control. I had coaches who were my mentors, disciplinarians and motivators. The life lessons I learned through sports were and still are invaluable.
Parents want to support their children’s endeavors, whether that be in academics, athletics, hobbies, or relationships. But sometimes we need to stop and ask ourselves – are we doing it in the right way? Over the years, we increasingly read stories on the news about parents who want their child to be the next great athlete, but instead damage their child emotionally by over-pressuring. You read about those parents who get into physical confrontations in the stands of little league games while their children are on the field because they just love t-ball. Frustrations may come along in different ways: when the referee makes a bad call, opponents play dirty, or when you realize you child is not cut for athletics. In the end what really matters is the development and enjoyment the individual experiences through it. Below is a list I’d like to share from the Florida High School Activities Association to help parents keep perspective on their children’s athletic career.

5 Ways Parents Can Support Their Child in School Sports
- Realistic expectations for your child’s athletic capabilities. Not everyone is athletic, help your child find something that they enjoy – maybe they’re interested in more non-traditional activities like sailing or aviation?
- Unconditional support, not contingent on performance. Don’t let them see disappointment, instead give them a pat on the back with a smile. They tried their best.
- For the love of sport! Let them enjoy themselves and play for their reasons not yours. That’s why they call it “playing” and “games” – isn’t it?
- Remain calm and composed during games. Do not draw negative attention to yourself or your child.
- Be a team player and role model. If children see their parents supporting the coach and team (even if you may not always agree) they will learn that no matter what happens; it is the teamwork and camaraderie that matters most.
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